TIP-TIP FACING PROBLEMS OF LIFE

One thing that never escape from our daily life is called life problems or issues. Wherever, whenever, whatever, and with anyone, any potential problems. But with exactly the same problem, the attitude of people also vary in the face. There are so panicky, shaky, frantic, even strees but some are to deal with so steady, calm, or may even enjoy it. This suggests that the problem or the real issue lies not in question but on the attitude towards the issue.
Therefore, anyone who wants to enjoy life with good, true, beautiful and happy is an absolute must continually improve the knowledge and skills of himself in the face of various problems that will surely continue to increase the quantity and quality in line with the age, the demands, expectations, needs, goals and responsibilities. Then, how do we deal with the problem of life? 

The first thing we should do is we must be ready to face that matches the desired and ready to face that does not match the desire. Because in life, there is often something that is not covered by us, which is beyond expectations and beyond our ability to prevent it. This is the plan of the Almighty. Because behind the incident, will bring tremendous wisdom and very helpful, much better than what was expected previously. So, whatever it is we have to submit all decisions and the best thing to Him. 

Secondly, is the attitude of pleasure / willing to accept the reality. Because although the real cause or not, the incident still happened. 

The third thing we can do is to do a self evaluation. Because everything that happens to us is the fruit of what we do. Then thank goodness, will undoubtedly multiply rewarded with various forms according to his best. Conversely any injustice done as smooth as would invite disaster response is more bitter and desperate. So make every problem as an effective means to evaluate and improve ourselves because that is the benefit to ourselves and to invite Him for help. 

The final thing you can do in facing the problem that is always clinging to the Almighty, Allah SWT. Because the actual thing will not happen except with the permission of Allah SWT. Although we desperately seek and ask for help to anyone, without the permission of His will never happen that we expect. 

Therefore we should not be afraid to confront the problem. But fear not getting the help of God in the face. Because without His help, we will continue to wander in distress, from one issue to another issue, with no added value to the world and the hereafter.